How to Choose the Right Family & Newborn Photographer

With so many talented photographers out there, it can be hard to know who’s the right fit.

And if you’re feeling a little overwhelmed, you’re not alone. Choosing someone to photograph your family (or your brand-new baby) isn’t like picking a haircut. This matters. It’s an investment. And you want to walk away thinking, “Yep. That felt good. And these photos actually look like us.”

You might be searching for a Minneapolis family photographer because it’s time for updated family photos, or because you’ve got a tiny human arriving soon and you’re Googling how to choose a newborn photographer at 2 a.m. while eating pickles and wondering if the car seat manual is written in ancient Greek.

Either way, the goal is the same: you want an experience that feels manageable, supportive, and worth it plus images you’ll genuinely want to see every day in your home.

Here are 5 grounded, confidence-building tips to help you choose the right photographer for your needs and values, whether you’re planning family photography, a studio newborn session, in-home newborn photos, or anything in between.

Family Photo Information

Look at Full Galleries, Not Just Highlight Reels

Instagram is a highlight reel. It’s supposed to be. But your session will include more than one perfect split second in perfect light with perfect hair. Real sessions have:

wiggly kids
different skin tones and outfits
squinty sun moments
shy toddlers who need a warm-up
newborns who want a snack break… or five

A photographer’s full gallery tells you whether their work is consistent from start to finish not just “wow” in a single hero shot.

If you want a quick, practical checklist while you compare photographers, the Better Business Bureau has a solid roundup of questions to ask before you book.

Why consistency matters

When you look at full galleries, you learn:

how they handle a variety of lighting (bright sun, shade, indoor window light)
how they photograph different family dynamics (big families, toddlers, teens, first-time parents)
whether the entire gallery feels cohesive and polished
if they can deliver strong images even when things aren’t “perfect”

For newborn sessions, full galleries are extra helpful because babies come with… personality. Some snooze. Some party. Some need breaks. Full galleries show how a photographer works with different temperaments and pacing.

A quick checklist for reviewing a full gallery

As you scroll, ask yourself:

Do faces look natural in different lighting?
Is skin tone consistent and flattering across the gallery?
Is there variety? (wide shots, close-ups, individual moments, groupings)
Do expressions feel real? (not everyone looks stiff or frozen)
Are details included? (hands, tiny features, connections)
Do the images feel finished, not rushed?

How I help: I share full galleries with potential clients when they ask because I want you to feel confident about what a full experience looks like especially when you’ve got toddlers with opinions or a newborn who runs the show (as they should).

Choose an Editing Style You’ll Love on Your Walls for Years

Let’s talk about editing for a second because “pretty” can mean a lot of things.

Some styles are bold and trendy. Some are bright and airy. Some are moody and contrasty. Some lean warm, some cool. None of these are “wrong,” but they do create very different vibes when you’re looking at images printed large in your home.

Here’s the key: Instagram-pretty isn’t always home-pretty.

Timeless vs trendy edits (and why it matters)

Trends are fun until you’re staring at an orange-filtered family portrait above your couch five years from now wondering why everyone looks like they vacationed on Mars.

When you’re choosing a photographer, ask yourself:

Do I want these photos to match my home (light, clean, neutral, classic)?
Do I love the look of this editing style in every season and setting?
Do I want the colors to feel true-to-life or stylized?

Imagine the “wall test”

Try this: picture a favorite image printed large in your home.

Would the skin tones still feel natural?
Would the whites look clean (not gray, yellow, or neon)?
Would the greens look believable (not electric)?
Would you still love the overall tone a few years from now?

How I help: My approach leans timeless, light, and clean meant to work beautifully as artwork in your home. The goal is a finished look that won’t feel dated the minute the internet moves on to the next trend.

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Pay Attention to the Photographer’s Vibe and Communication

You can love someone’s photos and still not love working with them. And since you’ll be spending real time together (often in a slightly chaotic life season), the photographer’s vibe matters more than people realize.

For family sessions, this is the person guiding your kids. For newborn sessions, this is the person walking into a tender, sleep-deprived, snack-wrapper-filled moment of life.

Comfort and trust aren’t “extras.” They affect your results.

Signs you’ve found a good fit

Look for someone who:

responds clearly and consistently
sets expectations (so you’re not guessing)
explains the process without confusing jargon
feels calm and confident especially under pressure
makes you feel supported, not judged

For newborn photography, add:

safety knowledge and baby-led pacing
flexibility around feeding, soothing, and breaks
a calm presence (because babies can sense vibes, and so can parents)

Questions to ask

“How do you guide families who feel awkward in photos?”
“What does your communication look like leading up to the session?”
“How do you help kids warm up?”
“How do you keep newborn sessions calm and safe?”

How I help: I keep things relaxed and organized. My job is to guide you gently, give you direction when you want it, and create space for real moments without making you feel like you need to perform.

Ask About the Experience, Not Just the Final Photos

If you want the best family photo experience, you’re not only choosing images you’re choosing how the whole thing feels.

The experience is what determines whether you walk away thinking:

“That was surprisingly easy,” or
“I never want to do that again.”

So yes, ask about deliverables. But also ask about the parts that actually make the session work.

For families: what to ask about kids (especially toddlers)

Toddlers are tiny unpredictability machines. A good photographer doesn’t panic when your child refuses to stand still or makes dramatic life choices like lying face-down in the grass.

Ask:

“What if my kids melt down?”
“Do you expect kids to pose the whole time?”
“How do you get real smiles without forcing it?”
“What does a typical family session flow look like?”

A solid answer sounds like: a plan, flexibility, and calm leadership.

For newborn sessions: pacing matters

Newborn photography should never feel rushed. Whether you choose a studio newborn session or in-home newborn photos, ask how the photographer structures time.

Ask:

“How long do newborn sessions typically take?”
“What happens if the baby needs feeding or soothing breaks?”
“Do you offer guidance on what to expect before we arrive?”
“How do you keep baby comfortable and safe?”

Prep support: the behind-the-scenes magic

This is the part that often separates a good experience from a stressful one.

Ask what’s included:

prep guides and planning support
help choosing outfits
location guidance (for outdoor sessions)
timeline expectations (when you’ll get your gallery, how ordering works)

How I help: I take a calm, child-led approach and offer gentle direction so you don’t feel awkward. I also provide prep guides and planning help plus styling support, including access to my studio wardrobe (yes, it’s real, and yes, it saves many people’s sanity and saves you money too).

Session options matter too, because life isn’t one-size-fits-all. I offer sessions in my Northeast Minneapolis studio, as well as in-home, outdoor, and Fresh 48/hospital sessions so you can choose what fits your season and comfort level.

Read Reviews and Testimonials for Patterns

Reviews can be incredibly helpful… once you know what to look for.

Because “She’s amazing!” is sweet, but it doesn’t tell you why.

Instead of reading reviews like a star rating, read them like a story. Look for repeated themes that point to a consistent experience.

What to look for in reviews (beyond the compliments)

Pay attention to patterns like:

“She kept things calm even when my kids were wild.”
“The process was organized and easy to follow.”
“I felt guided but not stiff.”
“She helped with outfits and planning.”
“The gallery looked consistent and beautiful.”
“I didn’t feel rushed.”
“She was patient and confident with our newborn.”

When you see the same themes repeated over and over, you’re learning how that photographer shows up not just how they shoot.

A few questions reviews can answer

Will I feel supported?
Will my kids be handled with patience and humor?
Will the process be smooth?
Are the results consistent?
Do people mention feeling comfortable and confident?

How I help: Many families mention that sessions feel easier than expected which is basically my favorite compliment. Calm, clear guidance + child-led flexibility goes a long way.

Testimonials

A Final Gut Check Before You Book

Before you hit “reserve,” ask yourself:

Do I love their full galleries, not just the best shots?
Does their editing feel like something I’d want in my home long-term?
Do I feel comfortable with their communication and vibe?
Does the experience sound supportive and realistic for kids/newborns?
Do reviews mention the things I care about (calm, guidance, consistency)?

If you can say yes to most of these, you’re probably making a really solid decision.

Ready When You Are

If you’re looking for a Minneapolis family photographer who offers a calm, child-led, heirloom-focused experience and who can help you feel prepared, guided, and genuinely comfortable I’d love to connect.

I offer sessions in my Northeast Minneapolis studio, as well as in-home, outdoor, and Fresh 48/hospital options, with planning support, styling help, and access to my studio wardrobe.

Head to my contact page to inquire and book when you’re ready. No pressure. Just a friendly next step.

Michele is a Minneapolis family photographer with 15 years of experience photographing families, newborns, and all the beautifully chaotic seasons in between. She’s known for a calm, child-led approach and gentle direction that helps even the most camera-shy parents relax and look like themselves (instead of wondering what to do with their hands for 60 minutes).

Her sessions are designed to feel easy and supportive from start to finish, with prep guides, planning help, and styling support—including access to her studio wardrobe for moms, dads, and little ones. Michele photographs in her Northeast Minneapolis studio, in clients’ homes, outdoors around the Twin Cities, and also offers Fresh 48/hospital sessions for families who want to document those early hours without overcomplicating them.

She believes the best family photo experience isn’t just about pretty images—it’s about feeling taken care of, having a plan, and ending up with photographs that look just as good on your walls as they do on your phone.

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